How to Deal with Resistance to Doing Healing Codes
by Diane Eble, CHCCP and editor
of The Healing Code
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Occasionally I hear from clients that they don’t feel like doing their Healing Codes . . . or
they feel worse when they do them . . . or that they feel nothing after sensing some kind of sensations before.
(Some people can feel the energy as tingling, warmth, or some other sensation.These experiences are all a very normal part of the healing process.
But if you don’t know that, you might lose interest and stop doing your Healing
And that will definitely halt your healing, and perhaps even set you back to where
So what to do about resistance?
A Normal Part of Healing
First, accept it as
a normal part of the process, as I said. Here’s an illustration that may help you.
Picture a clear
glass of water with a layer of mud on the bottom. The top of the glass where the water is is fairly clear. If
you stuck a straw into just this top part and drank that water, it wouldn’t taste too bad. But, knowing that
there is mud in the bottom that is no doubt compromising the purity of that seemingly clear water, you stick the
siphon into the mud at the bottom and start getting it out.
What happens as
you get that mud suctioned out? It begins to make the water muddy as well. If you drank the water at that time,
it would taste pretty bad.
Before you start
using The Healing Codes, your heart is like that glass of water with mud on the bottom. When you start doing
Healing Codes, it’s not unusual to see some results. Sometimes they’re dramatic. (Those are the ones that tend
to make it to the testimonials page.) You think, “These Healing Codes are great! They really work.” You’re
Then the straw
of the Healing Codes gets down into the mud. Uh-oh—things don’t feel so great now. In fact, it may make you feel
as crummy, figuratively, as if you drank that muddy water.
But if you keep
on doing the Codes, eventually you will get the mud out, and that glass of water won’t just appear to be clear
as it was at first, but it will actually be clear. And when you drink it, it will taste good, it will refresh
you, and will cleanse you on deeper and deeper levels.
What To Do
As I said above,
the first step is to recognize it for what it is.
resolve to do a Healing Code for at least the minimum amount recommended.
When you do the
Healing Code, you may want to address the resistance itself. Put in the prayer of intention: “ . . . with any
connection to this resistance to healing and doing Healing Codes, whatever it may be.”
resistance happens because negative things come up when doing the Healing Codes, and that freaks you out. You’re
trying to concentrate on the positive, but negative things keep coming up. So you push them
negative things are exactly what your heart wants to heal.
is often a big breakthrough for my clients.
negative comes up while you’re doing your Healing Code, don’t push it away.
Instead, sort of
welcome it. Nod to it and say casually, “Oh, thanks for showing up. You’re being healed too.” And then just
refocus on the positive.
When I shared
this with a client today, she was so relieved and comforted.
I hope this will
help you, too.
Codes work, if you do them. Remember, you have spent decades accumulating negative images, beliefs, and bad
patterns. It won’t take you decades to heal them, but for most things, it does take time. We all want magic bullets, but in our hearts we know that real results usually require an investment
on our part.
If you encounter
resistance, try these suggestions.
Let me know what
And if you need
personalized help, you can get that here.